Tales of Male Sexual
he makes love, either he cannot
ejaculate, or he ejaculates immediately, when he thinks about his
he wants to cuddle, it’s
difficult for him to be physically close to a woman. He feels repulsed
his wife found out that he had
an affair, when he makes love with her, he loses his desire, he does
not get an
erection, and he ejaculates too quickly. He’s afraid now that she will
unfaithful to him.
does not like to be touched. He
is verbally abusive to his wife and rejects her in every way. He said
masturbates to avoid making love, because when he makes love, he
quickly. He wishes he was still with his first wife because she was not
interested in sex at all because she had been raped.
he became his girlfriend’s
caretaker, when they make love, he does not have any desire, he cannot
erection, and he ejaculates immediately.
though he hates it, he just
cannot stop mistreating his wife and their children in the same way he
mistreated. He said when he makes love with his wife, he is sexually
does not love his wife but is
staying with her because he does not want to be alone as when he was a
When he and his wife make love he is unable to get an erection and does
have any desire to make love.
feels awkward about affection and
does not like to be touched. He said he behaves like his father by not
respect for women, such as, when they’re together, if they see a pretty
they both say they would like ‘to stick it to her’. He feels that women
emotionally dangerous and you cannot trust them. He
said use to like ‘bad girls’ because you
can just have sex with them and they can’t hurt you. He has an aversion
making love and does not have any desire.
his wife stopped working, when
they make love, he has an erection problem.
his girlfriend showed him
their baby daughter’s vagina, saying look at her little pussy, when
love, he is unable to get an erection. He cannot stop thinking about
daughter is an adult, men will want to have sex with her. He said he
his penis was too small and had surgery to elongate it. After the
was so much scar tissue, his penis looks smaller than it was before. He
afraid his girlfriend will leave him.
he was married he was
unfaithful to his wife because he didn’t want to ask her to do certain
acts, because it would have been disrespectful. Since then when he’s in
relationship with someone he cares about, he is sexually dysfunctional,
when he has casual sex, he is sexually fine.
has given up hope about most
things in life. He’s self-destructive. He feels ashamed and humiliated
of his appearance. He does not date anymore because he feels his penis
small. He said when he makes love, he is sexually dysfunctional.
fantasizes about his mother to be
able to attain and maintain an erection.
afraid of women and when he
makes love, he is sexually dysfunctional. When he masturbates, he is
so afraid to trust women, but
he needs closeness and affection. He said he obsesses about issues that
anxiety before he makes love, and then when he makes love, he has an
problem. He has feelings of hopelessness about ever resolving his
he makes love, he is unable to
keep his erection, and unable to ejaculate, unless if he watches
films. He’s concerned about his penis size.
he had surgery to improve his
sperm count because he and his wife wants to have a baby, when he makes
he loses his erection, and it takes a very long time for him to
he married his wife and she
insisted he use condoms, when they make love, he is sexually
When he is with other women, even when he uses condoms, he is sexually
does not trust women at all. He
feels that his self-esteem is always at risk. Still he must always be
relationship, even if it’s not good because this is better than being
and alone, especially that he has a great fear of rejection. He said he
arrested for using and selling drugs. He spent eighteen months in a
rehabilitation center and six months in jail. He said when he makes
has an erection problem on and off, and either he is unable to
ejaculate, or he
ejaculates quickly and so he prefers masturbation to making love.
has much resentment toward women.
He does not like to masturbate, but this is the only way he can get an
and ejaculate. He has made love only once and now the woman is claiming
he makes love, as soon as he
gets the feeling to ejaculate, he loses his erection, and then he is
he makes love with his wife he
has an erection problem and cannot ejaculate since he found out she was
a lesbian affair. He’s afraid he will not be able to trust another
his girlfriend gave him a
deadline to get married, when they make love, he has an erection
is unable to ejaculate. He said he loves her, but feels he is not ready
that kind of a commitment.
marriage to his wife ended after
the death of their daughter. He felt he had to be away from everything
familiar. His wife told him he would never find a woman to please him
as she had done. Since then, when he makes love, he has an erection
and is unable to ejaculate.
he makes love, he loses his
erection, and either he cannot ejaculate, or he ejaculates immediately,
if he fantasizes that he’s in a corporate meeting with a woman who is
in a business suit. He cannot take his eyes off the garters and the
tops of her
stockings that are exposed. Three or four times she stands up telling
him in a
business tone of voice to unbutton his shirt, which he does. She then
pants and begins to masturbate him, then closes his pants, buttons his
says to sit down. She continues talking about business and then in the
masturbates him to ejaculation.
very depressed because he and
his wife have serious marriage problems and may not be able to work
He said when they make love she pressures him and complains that either
ejaculates too quickly or it takes too long, or that he doesn’t get an
immediately. He blames her for his sexual dysfunctions because when
other women, he’s sexually fine.
first wife was murdered and he
is divorced from his second wife. Since his girlfriend was arrested for
when he makes love, he has an erection problem, and he either takes a
to ejaculate or is unable to ejaculate, or he ejaculates too quickly.
his mother-in-law died two
years ago, his wife has closed him out. When she refused his suggestion
marriage counseling, he threatened to leave even though he knew he
with her because he still loves her. He said when they make love he is
dysfunctional, since he started to have feelings of resentment and
he and his wife moved in with
her family to save money to buy a house, when they make love, he is
he was circumcised five years
ago, when he makes love, he is sexually dysfunctional.
has a problem maintaining his
erection, and either he cannot ejaculate, or he ejaculates too quickly,
makes love with women who remind him of his fiancé who left him
at the altar
many years ago.
might be unfaithful to his
wife because he wants to go to swing clubs or be involved in a
she does not. He said when they make love, he has a very hard time
erection and either he are unable to ejaculate, or he ejaculates too
repulsed since he found out
that his wife is bisexual. He said when they make love, he is unable to
erection, and ejaculates instantly.
believes it is his fault that his
wife verbally abuses him just like his mother did when he was a child.
when they make love, either he has delayed ejaculation, or he is unable
he found out that his
girlfriend had an abortion, when they make love, he has a weak
erection, and he
ejaculates quickly. He said he feels sick to his stomach because even
was not ready to be a father, he believes abortion is murder.
the last few women he has been
with have complained to him that intercourse hurts because his penis
has a negative attitude about making love. Still he does want to make
when he does, he has a weak erection, and ejaculates right away.
he makes love, he has an
erection on and off, and he ejaculates too quickly. He said his
fantasy is that he’s a waiter at a bridal shower in which all of the
virgins. He begins to serve them, and then one by one they gasp as they
enormous penis sticking is out of his pants. Though they are in shock,
beg him to touch his penis and put it inside of them.
he went out with a married
woman, when he makes love, he has an erection problem, and either it
a very long time to ejaculate, or he is unable to ejaculate. He said
dinner, they made love on the living room floor even though he was very
that her husband might come home, or that her children might wake up.
does not blame his ex-wife for
divorcing him because he hurt her and their daughters. He said to
guilt he allows them to take financial advantage of him. He said since
left him about six years ago, he has not been able to ejaculate when he
love. He wants to find a woman who just wants to cuddle and is not
in sex just like him.
was in a relationship with a
woman who would never hold his hand or otherwise be affectionate. She
wanted him for sex and told him so. When they made love, he was never
ejaculate during intercourse.
he makes love he is unable to
ejaculate, since he and his wife have decided to have a baby.
still a virgin. He feels
sexually inadequate because he does not have a large penis. When he
masturbates, he is unable to ejaculate.
feels he needs training in how to
sexually please a woman. He feels that he is supposed to know
sex and to know what women want, which he does not know. He said to
his inadequacy when he makes love with his girlfriend he focuses only
she tells him to do. During this time he gets the feeling to ejaculate
off. After his girlfriend has an orgasm, it takes him a long time to
or he does not ejaculate.
has to work about eighty hours a
week to support his family. His wife complains that he does not help
their five young children. He said since he started to ejaculate in
when they make love, his wife has refused to make love with him anymore
she can’t stand the sexual dysfunction. She told him that she is
other men and wonders what it would be like to be with a real man.
his twin daughters starting to
sleep in the same bedroom with him and his wife, when they make love,
ejaculates within minutes.
his girlfriend moved in, he
has lost all interest in her. He said when they make love, either he
ejaculate, or he ejaculates instantly.
his wife demanded he ejaculate
within seven to ten minutes, when they make love, either he cannot
or he ejaculates too quickly. He is sexually fine when he uses the
of all his failed
relationships, he has attempted suicide twice and had a nervous
first time he took pills and the second time he cut his wrists. He’s
afraid that he won’t find a woman who will love him. He has great
meeting women, and then finally when he does, he is clingy and
said when he makes love, either he has delayed ejaculation, or he
his wife gained weight, when
he makes love with her, he takes a very long time to ejaculate. When
other women, he ejaculates too quickly.
his girlfriend insisted they
watch a horror movie, when they make love, either he cannot ejaculate,
ejaculates quickly. In the movie, a man rapes a woman and then forces
to her knees to do oral sex to him. At this part of the movie, his
started to do oral sex to him. In the movie the woman bites off a piece
man’s penis, and at this part in the movie, his girlfriend dug her
his penis and then bit him. He has a fear of losing his penis.
he told his wife he wants
divorce, when he makes love, he is sexually dysfunctional.
his girlfriend laughed at him
when they made love, he feels sexually inadequate. He has been sexually
he had a penile implant, he is
unable to ejaculate. He’s upset that he has not had sex for about two
because his wife is not interested and his girlfriend has left him.
girlfriend is not affectionate.
When they make love, he loses his desire, he has an erection problem,
either unable to ejaculate, or he ejaculates within a minute.
he lost his job a few months
ago, when he makes love, he does not have any desire, and he ejaculates
a minute or two.
wants to have sex more frequently
than his wife does. She always agrees to make love when he wants to,
she’s not interested, she reads a book and says he should hurry up and
over with. He then loses his desire, and either he is unable to
he ejaculates right away. He is sexually fine when he masturbates and
is not so
concerned then if his penis is big enough.
fantasizes about watching two
women make love to be able to get an erection.
he makes love with his wife he
is unable to keep his erection unless she talks dirty.
his wife passed away, when he
makes love he feels guilty and loses his erection.
childhood has left him with much
anxiety. He also has a fear of abandonment, and because of this he will
whatever a woman wants. He has a problem expressing his anger even when
appropriate. He takes the blame for everything because whenever
wrong, he feels it’s always his fault. He said all of his past partners
cheated on him because he does not deserve to be with a beautiful
added that even when he’s in a relationship, he feels lonely. He said
makes love he cannot get an erection, and is unable to ejaculate. When
in a relationship, he has to resort to masturbation, and then feels
he had a vasectomy two years
ago, when he makes love, he is sexually dysfunctional.
has only been in two
relationships, and both women left him because they said they fell out
with him. He said when he makes love, his erection is weak, and either
a long time to ejaculate, or he ejaculates too quickly. He said he
sexual fantasies to be able to last longer. He thinks he will always
sexual problems. He has negative feelings about his penis.
though he does not like the way
his father mistreated his mother, he is following in his footsteps with
wife who was sexually abused when she was a child. He said when he
with his wife he has trouble ejaculating. When he is with other women,
ejaculates quickly, unless if he thinks about blood and guts to last
has recurrent nightmares that he
kills his neighbor who sexually abused him He said he does not like
about his appearance. He said he has always paid for sex and either he
unable to ejaculate, or he ejaculates too quickly. Sometimes he
he started to fantasize about
being seduced by his sister-in-law, when he makes love with his wife he
keep his erection, and he ejaculates quickly.
afraid of women because they
can make things happen or not happen to you. He’s not nice to his wife
she does not give him the unconditional love he needs. He always gives
impression that he is being unfaithful. He said he feels that she puts
him because she wants him at any cost rather than lose him however, she
started to retaliate. One night when he was drinking, she screamed that
a drunk and then she swung around and hit him. He said he is sexually
he has sessions with pre-op transsexuals, when he’s anywhere from
abusive, and when he masturbates fantasizing about a woman wearing a
When he makes love with his wife, he has an erection problem, and
he hates his mother, and is
unable to make peace with her; he lives with her because he is unable
function on his own. He is very self-conscious about his demeanor
people make fun of him all the time. He does not have any friends. He
to hold down a job. He said he hasn’t dated in many years since he was
college and his girlfriend cheated on him. The only time he makes love,
is when he sees a
few times a year, and then he cannot keep his erection or ejaculate.
he makes love with his wife he
has an erection problem. He’s concerned that his penis is too small. He
is sexually aroused when he acts out his sexual abuse when he was a
he makes love with his wife he focuses on negative aspects of her so
does not ejaculate quickly. He and his wife have been sexually
with his brothers. He has had sex with his brothers, and they have all
with his wife.
has attempted suicide. He’s angry
because women have always rejected him. He’s attracted to women who
abused. He said he is still a virgin because he remembers his father
told him that sex was dirty and disgusting. As of late, he stays away
women because he has an incontinence problem. He has been to many
help, but they cannot find a medical base. He is sexually aroused when
he acts out his sexual abuse when he was a
child otherwise he cannot ejaculate.
he attempts to make love with
his wife, she just lies flat on the bed with her legs closed tight,
him, telling him if he can get in, well then, he can get in, laughing
loses his erection.
he makes love with a nice woman
he is unable to get an erection and ejaculate, because he feels guilty
they are not married. However, when he makes love with a slut type of
is sexually fine.